A woman loves the feeling that goes through her when her clitoris is touched Just fine. If you don’t know exactly how he likes to be stroked … don’t feel bad. Nobody knows the best way to play it. No one but her, and tonight she will show you.
When your foreplay brings your mouth in contact with his lips … his other lips … pay special attention to the clitoris. He’s a shy imp, but you’re going to convince him to play. Touch it with your tongue, wet it with your saliva and then … remove it.
Cover your fingers generously with your favorite personal lubricant and rub them across your lips; separate them gently. Imagine the face of a small clock before you, with the clitoris at twelve o’clock. Where on that clock do you want to be touched? Where do you trace for maximum effect?
Polls tell us that more women touch each other at “two o’clock” than at any other position … but take your time to get there. Start at the top, just above the clitoris, and rub against her in short, quick, circular motions. Move to ten or eleven: does she respond more or less?
Keep it wet. Dip your fingertips into your vagina; draw a trace of their juices to the clock and rub it all over. Your clitoris will change as your arousal reaches new heights. It swells: it hardens and finally makes itself known when it comes out from under the hood of the clitoris.
The hood, a small piece of fur that protects all those nerve endings, will pull back, leaving that magic button exposed. Be careful! Too rough a touch, too much pressure, and your sexual revelry will be spoiled. But if you find out what really works under the hood, you’ll be giving him a gift that no other man has ever had: an orgasm as good as his.
So ask for help. Place his hand over yours. “Please show me …”
Follow their lead. Memorize their every move. Does it rub off fast? Does she press hard? perhaps it is too sensitive; Does he caress the clitoris itself or press it against the base? Watch for signs that you are approaching your climax … and see if you maintain your ecstasy by pausing briefly, changing the pace, and then starting over. Most important of all, learn exactly what it does when it finally blows up.
That last move, that intense finishing touch, or no touch at all, will make a difference in the world.
In sex as in golf, following is everything.