Women fake orgasm instead of investing in exploring sexual pleasure with a lover

Men suggest that it should be possible to educate women to be more interested in sex: “Just tell them sex is great and they’ll get it!” This is simple brainwashing and it doesn’t work. You can push women to feel like they should orgasm (to fake or mistake the orgasm), but you can never make them experience sex the way a man does.

Sex is inherently a scenario where a man takes and a woman gives. Nowadays, women like to hint that they get the same out of casual sex as men. A woman can’t ‘use’ a man’s body to orgasm, but she certainly can play on her insecurities as her lover.

Some women are promiscuous simply as a form of experimentation. Women also often gain economically or politically through sex. Women enjoy casual sex, not for the orgasm but for the thrill of the chase, the compliment, the novelty, and the sexual ego.

Just as men are entitled to enjoy their fantasies, there will always be women who describe sex as orgasmic. For such women, their orgasmic ability is implicitly linked to their sexual attractiveness in the eyes of their partner. Other couples may prefer to have more explicit explanations about the stimuli that can cause a female orgasm.

The female orgasm is a device used by women to speed up sex and divert attention from the fact that they are reluctant to engage in longer, more explicit sexual play. It is vital to recognize the effort of each partner and the reward they receive.

The impression given by the sexual advice is that all women experience orgasm with the same ease and frequency as men, both through masturbation alone and during sexual activity with a partner. However, Kinsey commented on the wide range that constitutes what might be considered “normal” sexual drive and orgasmic capacity among individuals.

Sex often comes in the context of romantic love and casual dating. Who has ever heard of a young woman in love saying ‘no’ to sex? The headaches come later.

Modern surveys focus on young women because of their enthusiasm for sex. Older women may be more realistic, but they are also more likely to know how to orgasm.

Why are we so reluctant to admit that relationships involve effort that is not for our own direct benefit? Do women really want to have wall-to-wall sex from morning to night or do they really want men to be more sociable?

What do men want? In short, a woman to be susceptible to sex. They also expect an enthusiastic lover and assume that women will be motivated by orgasm. But what if orgasm isn’t as rewarding for women? Women do not masturbate as frequently as men, so we can anticipate that they may want to orgasm less than men.

The elements of domination are essential for sexual passion, for both sexes. So, a woman’s lack of enthusiasm can make sex more erotic by simulating the sense of a ‘chase’.