Here are THREE easy tips to do if you want to flirt and attract your Asian woman without blowing it. I strongly encourage you to make this a long term plan because the miracle advice that every other dating coach gives will not work. Conservative women don’t really budget that easily, HOWEVER Here are some absolutely effective ways to MAKE SHE LOVE YOU. So would you rather be this pushy guy who tries and fails, or the guy that conservative women ROAR to sleep with?
1) The key is to be humble.
If your image is that you’re an outgoing guy, or if you’re six foot two and she’s 5’1″, you’ll definitely want to balance that act by being humble.
Conservative Asian women LOVE self-deprecating humor, especially if it’s established that you’re the coolest. It’s a fact that conservative Asian women aren’t afraid of complimenting, so if she tells you that you’re really awesome or cool for wearing that new $60 Zanerobi t-shirt, it’s best to jokingly tell her that you’ve been wearing it. for the last 3 days and he must be kissing your ass. Once again, laughter will ensue because she has chosen to show humility.
2) Talk about possibilities and don’t push for a date.
Usually the deciding factor is being too pushy and pushy. This is what most foreigners have trouble with when it comes to conservative Asian women.
In my training system, we have a term called Omen. What that means is giving you the possibility of a future date.
Instead of saying “we should go on a date,” say “imagine if we went for a walk on the beach this weekend, that would be so much fun, right?”
See it through the eyes of a conservative Asian woman. She pretty much lives a very introverted life, or even if she did have some social activities, it’s probably not doors for her to meet a boyfriend. If you “foreshadow” it, she’ll figure it out and SHE will want to say that she does.
When you push for a date, he will immediately think of a yes or no answer. When you envision not just one, but multiple dates as a possibility in his head, things change. Now you have all these beautiful things like drinking wine at the hotel bar, walking on the beach, trying tai chi for the first time or taking a nice walk in the park as options. Instead of YOU forcing the date, she’ll look at her schedule, free up a day, and because you’ve set the vision, she’ll be excited to go with you.
Trust me guys, I am never wrong with this.
3) Befriend their close friends
A conservative Asian woman has a small, close-knit group of friends, and chances are they are also conservative. If you follow these techniques, don’t blame me if everyone ends up wanting to sleep with you because that’s happened to me many, many times. Asian women are all about intrigue, so if you create intrigue by approaching her close friends, she will like you that much more because she shows that you can “exist” in her world.
Now, I don’t mean you have to stand there and play Monopoly with everyone while you watch some Korean soap opera you don’t understand, but spend some time with your friends. Again, perhaps in other cultures, different but conservative Asian women DO VALUE friendship and closeness, and want their best friends and lovers to be in the same “camp” as much as possible.
While I’m not suggesting that you befriend your parents anytime soon, your close friends will for now. You’ll want to build enough allies within their friend group who think you’re cool, and that will eventually help you with the showdown with parent units.
But I’m getting ahead of myself and I have a conservative girl who is quite intrigued with sake bombs. So, I will tell them in my next article that you will find on my blog.